Girls: five reasons to marry a pros and five reasons you should consider before doing this

Disclaimer: everything described below — is the fruit of personal experience, as well as the results of observation of friends and acquaintances. Well, do not take everything too seriously.

Despite the calendar on Monday, close to the new year gives us the Friday mood, which, in turn, encourages you to talk about something vital. This post is addressed to girls who happened to meet, or even marry the pros, and tells something about the strengths and weaknesses of your izrantsev. In addition, it won't hurt to read it and guys: maybe it will help to understand the reason for indignation of your favorite.

Five reasons to marry a pros

1. Reliability and responsibility

Most of my friends colleagues have a high sense of responsibility — it is, apparently, Willy-nilly, is produced in the course of professional activities. Marrying you, pros will take the responsibility for your comfort and prosperity, and, rest assured, will do everything to provide for them. Here it is worth to mention the ability to focus on goals and how to accomplish it: usually quiet and motionless meditators at the monitor, your partner can be a frantic activity and in an incredibly short period of time to move mountains. For example, if at some point he will understand that it is wrong for the second month to sit in a half-ragged dwelling, by the end of next week you may find yourself in a clean and renovated apartment. Also on personal experience tested that a single programmer can for two to three hours to put in perfect order two-bedroom apartment, together Samusiovas during the previous month.

2. Interesting conversationalist

Contrary to popular stereotype, most it people have a hobby outside their main specialty, and almost all of them are many, clearly interesting to tell. By the habit, acquired in primary profession, your guy delves into all the intricacies of his hobby, and if you manage to find this theme, you can learn a lot about the subject and about it. Among my colleagues there are a lot of musicians, some great paints, others are fond of martial arts (and not only their theoretical side), fourth for avid collectors. By the way, but almost none of them.

If happens that you have a hobby in common — you can only envy. And if not, at the time when your beloved will understand what motivates you, it probably will take a little research, just to be able to truly appreciate your accomplishments, and of making conversation. However, alas, the latest fashion trends and new album of the pop star he is unlikely to discuss...

3. Family wealth

It is no secret that the salaries of programmers now above average, on any country, no question. This means that your spouse will surely be able to provide a normal life to you and to your children, even if your own salary is not too large. Practice shows that in a large city (about the little town I will not say because of my lack of reliable information), even a recent graduate can find a decent job. Say what you will, but family happiness has been severely tested, if in the morning nothing to eat Breakfast, and the landlord threatens to evict for non-payment. In General, you have a good chance to get coats and jewelry a little more than usual.

By the way, if you are easy going, and your young man — the specials are above average, you have a good chance to live in different cities and even countries, though at the expense of his employers.

4. Fidelity

In this issue I will probably come on shaky ground, but I will undertake to say that many pros are not prone to adultery. The fact that most of them are very introvertive, and familiarity with the girl implies the manifestation of a certain degree of openness and sociability. And even if the competitor will take the initiative, it's hardly going to admit it in a private space, and especially to your own skin :-)

5. Personal typographist sysadmin.

It is difficult to overestimate this point. All computer equipment in your home will behave decently (well, if someone is not keen on experimenting with firmware and the like), viruses will be promptly wikidata, Internet most stable and so on. And even if you do not consider yourself to be fans of electronics, unexpected porn banner will not prevent you to surf the Internet or drive the sims favorite toy.

Five reasons you should consider before you marry a pros

1. Tediousness? Pedantry

It seems that one of the most painful problems, which from all it people most acutely manifested on the programmers. The habit of working with computers, presenting their thoughts in an understandable for them form affects the style of communication with people. Be prepared that your spouse will continue to "cling to the wording," to correct you in every way to be a Killjoy. It is not easy to check, but he does so not out of a desire to get the source, but rather from a sincere desire to understand what you meant.

Programs that we write, we're dealing with — it all belongs strictly formalized world, where each of the term and the phenomenon there is a precise definition, and we used to operate with accurate concepts. Therefore, communicating with you, your spouse will automatically try to build the necessary database definitions. Alas, to communicate in natural language, and even with human beings, it's impossible. And the only way with such a boring fight — gradually "re-educate" their young man, trying not to be annoyed in the process.

Even a spouse will claim not to speak of allusions and indirect signs, and the right to speak, if you want something. Just because the hints — even less reliable means of transmitting information than the natural language.

Another manifestation of pedantry — the tendency to plan everything. Don't be surprised if your favorite Monday will be asked to announce a plan for the current week, and will be very angry if you suddenly change your plans at the last moment. There is nothing surprising in the fact that he wants to know your hourly plan for a relaxing evening, especially in relation to common time, and will be annoyed if the plans suddenly change. The thing is that this raises the need to change his own optimal plans, and it just becomes a shame for the spent on the planning effort.

2. A rationalist to the bone

Also it is difficult to understand your decisions when you accept them based on emotion or momentary impulses. Examples of such situations textbook: three times to change my outfit before leaving the house, although the bottom is already waiting for a taxi, to require an urgent trip to the store, since "nothing to wear". In the latter case, he will think or even say something like: "How nothing?! Wardrobe is full! By the way, you got out of this stuff it is possible to make n!/(k!(n-k)!) different outfits, where k is the number worn clothes, and n is the number of available".

Here, as in the previous case, does nothing except gradual "re-education". Fortunately, your favorite quite able over time to understand and learn to predict your impulsive decisions that solve the previous problem.

3. Forget about coats

If you are already happy to read about a good salary, I have to upset you. Instead of the cute brooches for the new year you will surely get some kind of gadget at least, if not implying that you want to holiday brooch or fur. However, about hints, see above.

4. You have to love the technique

Unfortunately, you can not escape from talking about the next new product technology, gadget or service. You certainly try to transplant on a smartphone, SMS replaced by WhatsApp, describing its great advantages, and, in some cases, mean to replace conventional Windows on Ubuntu. And there are two choices: either to try a little bit to figure it out a little bit to understand what it all is now broadcasting the husband or divorce. On the other hand, you don't need to become alternica, simply become a confident user and understand why you don't want Ubuntu.

5. Social life

In the first half I have already mentioned introvertebrate urban people. At this level there is a nasty manifestation: do not expect that your izbrane will want to regularly go to clubs and participate in booze. On his own initiative-he will lead you probably to the movies, theater or, at most, on a concert of your favorite band, and even then not too often. So I have to compromise and sometimes do not hesitate to take the initiative in their hands.

a Few words in conclusion

The text is pretty long, longer than I expected, but split into two posts I do not want it. I wanted to emphasize that the pros have their advantages and disadvantages, like any other people, I hope I succeeded. Fortunately, most of the shortcomings with the times "treated" — is pumped skill of family life, forgive me the wording. If you have experienced these problems myself, do not worry, do not get angry, do not be offended. It is better to try to gently indicate to the beloved's faults, and over time it will improve. If you suddenly found out in some of the items yourself, don't wait until you tell me, and your pet will be pleasantly surprised.

PS Not found hub more appropriate than "Cellar," if there's a more correct — prompt.

UPD: Offer abrowser and their girls/wives to fill both the first and second lists, from personal experience. I will try to add to the post. You see, the benefits of fasting will increase.

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